Double dating etiquette
Every girls hates it when their boyfriend says, “I’m going back home now… Thanks for the year of free sex and being my tour guide. Well, they don’t actually say those words, but the meaning is similar. A Korean woman is very respectful, loyal and obedient to her parents and the parents, in turn, are very protective and meddlesome about their daughter’s personal affairs.
Even when a Korean girl is dating a Korean guy, parents have significant power in manipulating her choice of a potential husband. Korean girls seek their parents’ approval and may end up breaking up with a guy if the parents disapprove and tell her to break up.
Pushing for ‘skinship’ or something more intimate too soon will cause her to doubt your intentions.
If you are a white, young, and somewhat handsome, male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy or womanizer.
Note: The article ’10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls’ was meant to be for fun.
I am speaking from just my own personal experience as a white male and, of course, these points do not refer to all Korean women.
They know as a foreigner in Korea you attract a lot of attention and they may assume that you must have many girls chasing you.
Some Korean women, especially older ones, tend to have a fantasy of meeting a foreigner and escaping patriarchal Korean society. You are clearly a more positive alternative than marrying a Korean guy and having to deal with an evil Korean mother-in-law or other intrusive family members.
As result, they still have to follow their parents’ rules.
It is common for young women to have curfew even into their 30s.
When a Korean girl dates a foreigner, they are scared that their new boyfriend may think they are easy.
So, Korean women may be more cautious dating a foreign man than when dating a Korean man.